Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Butt sex can be incredible — but anal sex demands respect. As psychologist David Ley, PhD, once told Refinery29 : "If you try to do it the way most porn does, it will be like learning to shoot from watching Steven Seagal movies: Somebody will get hurt.
Good news: Anal sex is becoming less and less taboo. Anal sex provides a different kind of fullness and, with the right partner, can be really, truly intimate especially if it's a first for both of you. Of course, not every woman is going to be into anal I mean, is any sex act a universal turn-on? But many women are here for it, and some can even have full-on anal orgasms. With the right positions and a few helpful pointers, you could be one of them.
Anal sex is most often portrayed as a doggy-style-only affair, but the truth is, there are so many different ways to do butt stuff. Mix it up with these 12 positions! And if you're thinking about trying anal sex for the first time, buy a bunch of lube and read Cosmopolitan. Anal sex often leaves you staring off into the distance, so this position is great for people who want a sexy view.
Takeaway: When it comes to comfortable, pleasurable anal sex, little adjustments can make a huge difference. When it comes to anal sex , it's impossible to over-emphasize the necessary components for a safe, pleasurable time: communication, relaxation and lubrication lots of it! That said, every attempt is different, so try not to put too much pressure on each session.