Photo by Stocksy. A big part of sacred sexuality is learning to love the penis and not be afraid of it. This lingam massage I am teaching you can be done two ways. The first is for men to learn, so they can practice edging on themselves via masturbation. In the second method, a partner gives the man the massage. It can be an independent act or foreplay to sex. Many women I work with are still not totally comfortable with handling a man's penis.
A typical lingam massage is a full-body massage, which includes the genital area. A lingam massage may be therapeutic, focused on locating and releasing tension stored deep within the abdomen, or sensual, focused on helping the receiver to connect with and control his sexual response. It may be used as foreplay for Tantric sex , or as a Tantric ritual in and of itself. To the uninformed, lingam massage sounds like nothing more than a man paying for a massage with a "happy ending" - a form of sex work. In recent years, however, science has undertaken serious research into the complexities of male sexual response, and the neo-Tantric community has used practices such as lingam massage to teach large numbers of men how to control premature ejaculation.
Tantric massage is a special type of massage that uses energy and chakras a center of energy in the body, according to Indian belief to relax the person into the state of feeling that physical boundaries have dissolved. The goal of tantric massage is not orgasm, but to please your partner. While most massages will have you covered under a towel for the majority of the time, tantric massage also involves massaging the genital areas. And even though it sounds intimidating to give a massage so blissful your partner transcends their physical body, Duarte has many helpful tips for performing a tantric massage at home:. Knowing that you have a lot of time will allow both you and your partner to get into the mood better.